How To Respond To Just Chillin
Reaching out to someone you’re interested in can be incredibly nerve-wracking. But if you’ve ever been ghosted, you know just how frustrating it can be when that interest is rebuffed. Whether it’s for no apparent reason or because the person just doesn’t feel like they’re ready for a relationship at this particular moment, it can be tough to take. If you’re currently being ignored by someone you’ve reached out to, it’s likely because they’re “just chillin.” In other words, they’re not interested in pursuing anything with you and are content just doing their own thing. However, with a little patience and a knowledge of how to respond to “just chillin,” you can hopefully start moving things forward again. Here are some tips on how to do just that!
How Do I Respond To “Just Chillin”?
It can be tough knowing how to respond to people who tag you in a photo or message just “chillin.” The best way to approach the situation is to be polite and genuine. Remember, they are likely spending time with friends or family and just want to connect with you. If the person does seem interested in talking, be respectful and initiate the conversation. Let them know that you’ll connect with them later and potentially hang out (if things work out). If it’s clear they’re not intending to have a conversation, then there’s no need to respond. However, first, determine if the person you’re responding to is actually chilling or just messing with you. If it’s the former, just have a little fun with it and reply back with something like “chillin’ with my fam” or “you just caught me in the zone.” But if it’s the latter, just stay chill and enjoy your time alone!
Should I Take It Personally?
It can be tough to know how to react when people just want to chat with you – at first, it might seem like they are trying too hard. However, sometimes they are just being friendly and don’t actually have anything bad on their mind. Remember that you’re always worth talking to and never be afraid of reaching out! If the person keeps bugging you or making your life difficult, it’s time to take a step back and reconsider whether or not this is really what’s best for you.
Are they Ignoring Me?
There are various things you can do if someone messages you, but the best thing to do is simply ignore them. This will help ensure that your valuable time and energy is not wasted on people who are not interested in being friends or engaging with you. Remember that it is never rude or unacceptable to politely decline an offer or conversation if you don’t want to participate. In most cases, this should be just a polite ‘no thanks’. However, there might be some instances where the person messaging you crosses a line; then it would be necessary for you to take appropriate action depending on the content of their message and how they treat others around them.
Do They Need Distance?
When someone wants to “just chill”, it usually means they want more space or time. If this is the case, you may need to set some boundaries for yourself and say no at first. However, if the person does not take no for an answer, then you may have to distance yourself from them in order to protect yourself. It’s important that you listen carefully and determine how much distance is necessary in order to maintain healthy relationships with those around you.
Are They Busy?
Sometimes, people just want to take a break after a long day. When this happens, it’s always polite to respect their wishes and let them rest in peace. If the person is unavailable, you should say so politely and move on. Remember – always be friendly and respectful when speaking with others! If they ARE available for chat, try asking if they would like to talk for a bit longer instead of simply “chillin”.
It’s hard to resist the temptation to respond to just chill messages, but sometimes it’s best to just let them be. If they haven’t responded after a few minutes, reply with something like “peace?” or “I’m good.” If they do respond, always be polite and try not to get too personal. When someone sends you a just chill message, give them some time to react before deciding what you want to say. And lastly, don’t respond right away – let them have the last word in the conversation.
It can be difficult when you’re not feeling well to just chill and not do anything. But, by following these tips, you can successfully respond to “just chillin” without feeling too stressed out.